Fiona Wolownik
SOMATIC SEXOLOGIST

Hi, I'm Fiona
I grew up in a world where bodies were shaped, judged, and perfected. From early on, I learned that being desirable mattered.
Trying to get my body “right” didn’t bring safety or belonging, it slowly disconnected me. I pushed and controlled my body through restriction, over-exercise, and constant self-monitoring. I learned to override my limits, to say yes when my body said no, and to use my body for validation while living with ongoing anxiety, tension, and exhaustion.
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When my body began to break down, I started searching.
I explored many healing paths, read hundreds of books, sat Vipassanas, in ceremonies, psychologists, healers, rehab for body injuries, I spent years trying to understand myself. Some things helped, but my body still felt distant, as if I could understand a lot without truly feeling it.
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What changed everything was learning to listen.
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Somatic sexology became the missing piece. It taught me how to slow down instead of push, how to feel boundaries from the inside, and how to experience desire and pleasure without force, performance, or pressure. Much of my healing happened through the same practices I now offer.
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Today, my body is no longer something I try to control, she guides me. I do this work because I know what it’s like to live disconnected, and I know how much becomes possible when we begin to listen again.
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This is my offering.
This is lived work.


Educational Background
ACSB CERTIFIED SOMATIC INTIMACY COACH & SEXOLOGIST (in training)
Institute of Relational Harmony
ACSB CERTIFIED SEXOLOGICAL BODYWORKER (in training)
Institute of Relational Harmony
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800 hours of training in REEF™ Relational Erotic & Emotional Fluency Coaching. The foundations are based on Mindfulness, Sexological Bodywork®, Body Poem™, Wheel of Consent®, Right Use Of Power® and Affective Relational Neuroscience teachings and practices.
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Other Trainings
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The Tantric Way - Gaia Ma, Inanitah Nicaragua
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Women’s Circle Facilitator Training - InCircle.School, UK
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Tantra Massage Level 1 - Pola Vida, Portugal
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500 Hours YTT - Ashtanga & Vinyasa, India
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Chi Nei Tsang / Abdominal Massage Level 1 - by Waree, Thailand
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Dynamic Thai Yoga Massage - Sunshine House, Greece
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Traditional Thai Massage - Sunshine Massage School, Thailand
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Approx. 20 weeks of education and workshop experience in Somatics, Sexuality, Tantra, Temple, Vipassana, Yoga

A final word...
Feeling your body, and exploring self-pleasure, isn’t just beautiful. It takes courage. Because it often means meeting parts of yourself you’ve learned to avoid. Shame. Fear. Old defences. Places that feel tender, shut down, or scary to open. Sometimes it feels like stepping through a door without knowing what’s on the other side. And once you step through, more doors appear. That can be unsettling. And it can be deeply alive. The reward of staying — of not turning away — is hard to put into words. There is more sensation. More truth. More choice. More of you. The kind of self development that happens here isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about daring to open. About letting yourself feel, even when it’s uncomfortable. About trusting that your body knows the way. This is the work I care about most. Accompanying people as they soften, open, and find the courage to live the life they actually long for, in their bodies, their relationships, and their sexuality.
If something in you feels stirred by this, you’re already closer than you think.
Let's work together.
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